I grew up alone got into fights and lived in a rough neighborhood. I learned how to read folks and controlled getting out of fights as well if I wanted to fight. I’m also a good gun handler. Since those days I go to church believe in the Lord and i believe it gives me an edge in both being tough and yet able to deal with others on a more friendly basis. Just today I got rear ended. Got out my truck and was hotter than a hornet. Then I saw a kid barely 20 yrs old, nervous and repeatedly saying sorry. I softened up immediately and told the kid to stop apologizing and not to worry everything will work out. I left there leaving the kid feeling better that before.